Who's In My Margin?

LIFE FORMS IN MY MARGINS

This activity is a self-assessment tool to help us explore and find any learned prejudices and stereotypes we may unconsciously believe.

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*This activity was based on an activity taught by the former nonprofit City-House.  

PURPOSE: This activity is a self-assessment tool to help us explore and find any learned prejudices and stereotypes we may unconsciously believe. Once identified, these beliefs may be investigated, challenged, seen to be false, and replaced with more truthful, helpful, and life-affirming beliefs that allow us to relate in a wise, loving, compassionate manner with all life forms. 

How to Do It: See the picture of rings on the second page. In these rings, or outside of them, write where you place the humans, animals, and life forms based on the descriptions provided. We also ask that you place the different parts of your body-mind (see list below) in the ring too, so you see which parts of yourself you love and which parts you judge. 

You're basically putting individuals and groups into one of four categories:

  1. Center Ring: Life forms you appreciate. You make sacrifices to improve their wellbeing. You strive to not harm them directly or indirectly.

  2. Second Ring: Life forms you sometimes appreciate and sometimes don't. At times, you might inconvenience yourself to improve their wellbeing. You may harm them directly or indirectly, with or without guilt.

  3. Third Ring: Life forms you fear, hate, or think of as evil. You would not lift a finger to improve their wellbeing. Your actions directly or indirectly harm them, and you have no guilt.

  4. Outside the Rings: Life forms you don't care about or don't know what to do with. You generally would not lift a finger to improve their wellbeing. Your actions may directly or indirectly harm them, but you don't know, and don't care. 

Tips: 

• Be honest and genuine. This works best when you are honest and genuine. Don't share your answers with others if that helps you feel safer in doing the activity. 

• Be compassionate to yourself. You did not ask for your family, culture, and experiences to condition yourself with hurtful prejudices and stereotypes, so if you find them, be compassionate to yourself, as they are not your fault, and do not reflect badly on you.

• Celebrate your loving intentions. This activity is done out of love to help you awaken and to create Beloved Community where all life is able to thrive. That is a beautiful and wonderful intention to be celebrated and enjoyed. Way to go! 

Possible Groups to Place in the Rings

We list these groups to help stimulate your creativity, and so you can reflect on your relationships to all of these life forms. Embrace the freedom to break these groups up if different life forms within a group belong in different rings. For example, within your family members maybe you feel safe with your sister and brother, but uncomfortable around your aunt, and indifferent about your uncle. Simply use this list to help jump-start your creativity in doing this activity. 

Your Body/Mind

Notice how you relate to individuals states and groups of thought forms and add them to the rings: 

Mental States (tired, wired, brain fog, etc.)

Bodily States (exhausted, ill, in pain, cold, hot, etc.)

Emotional States (anger, hate, crying, fear, etc.)

Thought Forms (skillful, unskillful, repetitive, judgmental,  etc.)

Body parts (skin, hair, eyes, body shape, etc.)

Humans

Family members

Homeless people

Poor people

Rich people

People of other economic classes

Asian people

Black people

White people

Hispanic people

People of other ethnicities, races, and from other countries

Women

Men

Transgender or nonbinary people

Gay, lesbian, and bisexual people

People of other gender identities or sexual orientations

Christians

Catholics

Protestants

Muslims

Jewish people

Hinduists

Taoists

Buddhists

Animists

Atheists

Agnostics

Scientists

Philosophers

People of other wisdom traditions 

Urban people

Rural people

Educated people

Uneducated people

Conventionally beautiful people

Conventionally ugly people

Obese people

Overweight people

Skinny people

People with physical disabilities

People with mental disabilities

People with invisible disabilities

Conservatives

Democrats

Socialists

Authoritarians

Communists

Anarchists

People who support other political positions

Politicians

Lawyers

Tax Collectors

Doctors

Servants

Wait staff

Janitors

People who work in other jobs

White Supremacists, Neo-Nazis, etc.

Black Lives Matter activists

Abortion providers

Pro-Lifers

Pro-Choicers

Animal activists

Vegans/vegetarians

Occupy activists

Tea Party activists

Q Anon activists

Other kinds of activists

Criminals

Terrorists

Rapists

Murderers

Other people who do harm to people, animals, or the planet

 

Non-human Animals

Cats

Dogs (poodles, pit bulls, etc.)

Fish

Rabbits

Other individual or species of animal companions

Deer

Squirrels

Rats

Mice

Insects

Spiders

Other species of wildlife

Monkeys

Beagles

Cats

Rats

Mice

Animals used in laboratories and cosmetic testing

Elephants

Lions

Tigers

Bears

Horses

Bulls

Animals used to perform in circuses, rodeos, and other acts of entertainment

Mink

Bobcat

Rabbits

Lynx

Cows

Animals raised or trapped for their pelts

Pigs 

Cows

Chickens

Sheep

Turkeys

Fish

Animals raised to be eaten

 

Other Life Forms

Backyard

Neighborhood

Town

Other lands and ecosystems near you

Oceans

Rivers (Mississippi, Crow, etc.) 

Lakes

Other bodies of water

Prairies

Mountains

Forests

Deserts

Other types of terrain

Trees

Shrubs

Bushes

Flowers

Weeds

Invasive plants

Other types of plants

Rocks

Soils

Minerals

Global Climate

Landfills

Asphalt parking lots

Mines

Superfund sites

Overgrazed fields

Manure lagoons

Polluted waterways

The garbage patches in the ocean

Bleached coral reefs

Nuclear power stations that store spent fuel rods

Nuclear bomb test sites

Other ecosystems and life forms that have been poisoned or harmed by human activity

I’ve done the activity, but what does it all mean?

That is for you, and your inner love and wisdom to decide. Trust your inner love and wisdom. It really does know what to do with the information.